It is normal for people to make mistakes. And it is
normal behavior to react to the mistakes we made. But how we deal with the
mistakes we make, is what differentiates one person from another. Where we can
be better than the next person is to learn from our mistakes and go beyond them
to better things.
When you make your first mistake in business, you feel
stressed out and worried. You cannot sleep. But do not let that get you down.
Do not allow your anxiety to make you feel depressed and unhappy. You are not
alone, every successful person has made at least one mistake sometime in their
life and it has taught them many useful life lessons. You have not done
anything thousands of others have not done before you. So cheer up and stop
feeling upset.
Treat
it as a learning experience
The sensible thing to do is not to cry over your mistake,
but to treat it as a learning experience. See what went wrong, figure out how
to avoid these problems the next time round and move on. Accepting and
acknowledging your mistake is the first step in learning. Your mistakes and how
you react to them makes you the person you are – if you learn from them and make
better decisions next time, it makes you a wiser and bigger person. If you do
not accept your mistakes you cannot move forward. You stagnate in every way, in
your personal and professional lives. You need to have the guts and strength of
mind to swallow your pride and figure out where you have gone wrong. This will
help you evolve. Do not make excuses or keep arguing about your mistakes – just
internalize them and grow beyond them.
Do not pass on the blame for your mistakes onto someone
else. You are responsible and accountable for your actions. Accept this fact of
life. It will help you to improve on yourself and will earn you respect from
those around you.
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